[Life situation of parents of twins and triplets: a qualitative study]

Starting in the middle of the 1980s, an increasing incidence of multiple pregnancies in Germany has been reported, with assisted reproduction mainly contributing to this increase. In the management of multiple pregnancies, the main focus is on optimising the obstetric care. The difficult socio-economic and psychosocial situation of parents of multiples, however, is often underestimated.

The present study examines the life situation of parents of twins and triplets using focus groups as a qualitative research method. Nineteen mothers and fathers of twins and triplets were interviewed in four focus groups. Main topics were the parental reaction to the diagnosis of multiple pregnancy, the first time at home with the multiples, special situations and wishes and ideas for a better care during multiple pregnancy.

The diagnosis of multiple pregnancy was made at early gestational age, with the parental reactions being described between "happiness" and "shock". With this diagnosis, however, the future parents feel alone. Caring for the babies is leading to the limits of parent's ability to take stress. Marital problems and social isolation are discussed controversially. Exceptional situations such as illness of the mother require fast and un-bureaucratic solutions.

The interviews suggest that special problems of multiple parenthood such as social isolation, marital and psychic problems are not necessarily related to higher order multiples or handicapped children. It appears to be essential to offer a more individual care for women expecting multiples, whereas the main resource for improving care is in providing contact and information possibilities.