When does the responsibility of our care end: bereavement

Shortly before his death in 1995, Kenneth B. Schwartz, a cancer patient at Massachusetts General Hospital, founded the Kenneth B. Schwartz Center. The Schwartz Center is a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting and advancing compassionate health care delivery, which provides hope to the patient, support to caregivers, and sustenance to the healing process. The center sponsors the Schwartz Center Rounds, a monthly multidisciplinary forum where caregivers reflect on important psychosocial issues faced by patients, their families, and their caregivers, and gain insight and support from fellow staff members. Two vignettes are presented of a caregiver's response to the death of a patient, contrasting the extremes of involved compassion for the family and fractured relationships. Grief for loss is an inevitable part of life and a common part of cancer care. Support of the bereaved may be one of the hardest tasks for cancer care professionals, who are confronted with the limits of modern medicine. There is a responsibility to provide grieving families with support and care; care that goes beyond the death. A compassionate response helps both those who suffer and those who care. Complicated and uncomplicated bereavement, grief reactions, resources for bereavement counseling, and the role of condolence letters are reviewed.