The violent adolescent: the urge to destroy versus the urge to feel alive

Jane Snyder1, Kenneth Rogers

  • 1Institute for the Study of Violence, Boston Graduate School of Psychoanalysis, 1581 Beacon Street, Brookline, MA 02446, USA.

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