The benefit and the doubt: why monogamy?

G A Schuiling1

  • 1Division of Human Biology, Faculty of Medical Sciences, University of Groningen, A Deusinglaan 1, 9713 AV Groningen, The Netherlands.

Summary

Monogamy is rare in mammals, evolving due to male mate-guarding, but often includes extra-pair mating. Humans exhibit social monogamy influenced by culture, though polygamy remains common.

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