Covert parental control: parent-adolescent interaction and adolescent development in a Chinese context

Ching-man Lam1

  • 1Department of Social Work, Chinese University of Hong Kong, Shatin, N.T, Hong Kong. chingmanlam@cuhk.edu.hk

Summary

Chinese immigrant parents use "covert parental control," guiding adolescents through subtle tactics. Adolescents reciprocate this control, driven by loyalty and the concept of "guan," shaping Chinese adolescent development.

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