Mothering in a foreign land

Pratyusha Tummala-Narra1

  • 1Georgetown University Hospital, 5th Floor Kober-Cogan Building, 3800 Reservoir Road NW, Washington, DC 20007, USA. ptummala@hms.harvard.edu

The process of becoming a mother in an adopted land presents unique challenges in identity formation of immigrant mothers. The bidirectional influence of the mother's own transformation and that of the larger family system has significant implications for child development. This article addresses the ways in which cultural displacement has an impact on the dilemmas of motherhood, as evident in adaptation to the immigration process, changing conceptions of gender roles and attachment, bicultural conflicts, and changing family structure and social network. Mothers' attempts to integrate the old and the new cultural frameworks are explored, particularly in the context of psychotherapy. Clinical cases are discussed to illustrate the intrapsychic and interpersonal conflicts faced by immigrant mothers.

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