From benign mirror to demon lover: an object relations view of compulsion versus desire

Susan Kavaler-Adler1

  • 1Object Relations Institute for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis, 115 East 9th Street, 12P New York, NY 10003, USA. SUSKA674@aol.com

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