The relational self revealed: integrative conceptualization and implications for interpersonal life

Serena Chen1, Helen C Boucher, Molly Parker Tapias

  • 1Department of Psychology, University of California, Berkeley, CA 94720-1650, USA. serchen@berkeley.edu

Psychological Bulletin
|March 16, 2006
PubMed
Summary

This study introduces an integrative conceptualization of the relational self, demonstrating its pervasive influence on psychological processes, interpersonal life, and well-being. The relational self shapes personality and provides meaning, impacting various life outcomes.

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