Sharing information with adults conceived as a result of donor insemination

A growing number of jurisdictions have introduced legislation to give children the right to information about, and identity of, 'their' gamete donor. This has been accompanied by a reduction in the social stigma associated with infertility and building families with the assistance of donated gametes. This changing culture has meant that an increasing number of parents are seeking assistance regarding how to share their family history, including the donor insemination conception story. The literature suggests that the sharing of information is best undertaken when the children are young. There is virtually no literature available for parents who wish to share their family history with adult offspring, or for those professionals whose guidance they may seek. This paper addresses this emerging area of practice. It is suggested that there are three main areas that will be of assistance with any attempt to understand the individual and family dynamics involved: identity and self-image, stigma and power. Strategies and suggestions emerging from each of these areas of knowledge are outlined. This paper aims to generate discussion and to encourage others to share their clinical experiences in this area.