Parents' common pitfalls of discipline

Chatree Witoonchart1, Thitiporn Fangsa-ard, Supamit Chaoaree

  • 1Department of Pediatric, Faculty of Medicine, Siriraj Hospital, Mahidol University, Bangkok, Thailand.

Summary

Many parents struggle with child discipline due to common pitfalls in limit setting, rewards, and supervision. Addressing these issues requires better parental knowledge and attitudes for effective child-rearing strategies.

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