Problem behavior and romantic relationships: assortative mating, behavior contagion, and desistance

Dana M Rhule-Louie1, Robert J McMahon

  • 1Department of Psychology, University of Washington, Box 351525, Seattle, WA 98195-1525, USA. drhule@u.washington.edu

Summary

Antisocial behavior and substance misuse often persist into adulthood, influencing romantic relationships. While partners may share similar behaviors, relationships can also support positive change and desistance from problem behaviors.

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