Ruminative coping as avoidance: a reinterpretation of its function in adjustment to bereavement

Margaret Stroebe1, Paul A Boelen, Marcel van den Hout

  • 1Research Institute for Psychology and Health, Faculty of Social Sciences, Utrecht University, Box 80140, 3508, TC Utrecht, The Netherlands. m.s.stroebeharrold@fss.uu.nl

Summary

Rethinking grief: This study reframes ruminative coping after losing a loved one. It suggests rumination is an avoidant strategy, similar to denial and suppression, not a confrontation in grief work.

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