Our favorite tips for interviewing couples and families

John Sommers-Flanagan1, Rita Sommers-Flanagan

  • 1Educational Leadership and Counseling, The University of Montana, 724 Eddy Street, Missoula, MT 59812, USA. john.sf@mso.umt.edu

Summary

Clinical interviews with families and couples are challenging. This study introduces three techniques—radical acceptance, romantic history, and wishes into goals—to aid both clinicians and clients.

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