Listening to mothers: take two

Judith A Lothian1

  • 1JUDITH LOTHIAN is a childbirth educator in Brooklyn, New York, and a member of the Lamaze International Board of Directors. She is also an associate professor in the College of Nursing at Seton Hall University in South Orange, New Jersey.

Summary

Childbirth in the U.S. remains intervention-heavy, with few women experiencing normal birth practices. Childbirth education classes increase confidence but are not the primary information source for most mothers.

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