Don't look back in anger: learning from my mistakes with Mark and his family

Rudi Dallos1

  • 1Department of Clinical Psychology, PAHC, Derriford Rd, University of Plymouth, PL6 8BU, UK. r.dallos@plymouth.ac.uk

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