Poignancy: mixed emotional experience in the face of meaningful endings

Hal Ersner-Hershfield1, Joseph A Mikels, Sarah J Sullivan

  • 1Department of Psychology, Stanford University, CA 94305, USA. haleh@psych.stanford.edu

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