Balancing connectedness and self-protection goals in close relationships: a levels-of-processing perspective on risk

Sandra L Murray1, Jaye L Derrick, Sadie Leder

  • 1Department of Psychology, University at Buffalo, The State University of New York, Buffalo, NY 14260-4110, USA. smurray@buffalo.edu

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