Success, regret, and the struggle for balance

Joseph A Carrese1, Michel A Ibrahim

  • 1Division of General Internal Medicine, Johns Hopkins Bayview Medical Center and the Johns Hopkins University, Baltimore, Maryland, USA.

Summary

Physicians face challenges balancing career and personal life. Prioritizing career success can negatively impact well-being for doctors and their families.

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