Avoidant romantic attachment and female orgasm: testing an emotion-regulation hypothesis

Danielle L Cohen1, Jay Belsky

  • 1Institute for the Study of Children, Families & Social Issues, Birkbeck University of London, UK. dr.cohen@myfastmail.com

Summary

Attachment avoidance in women is linked to lower frequency of orgasms. This suggests emotional regulation and early life experiences significantly impact sexual satisfaction in adulthood.

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