Regret resolution, aging, and adapting to loss.

Cynthia M Torges1, Abigail J Stewart, Susan Nolen-Hoeksema

  • 1School of Social Work, University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, MI 48109-1106, USA. ctorges@umich.edu

Psychology and Aging
|March 26, 2008
PubMed
Summary

Resolving regrets aids well-being and adjustment after losing a loved one. Older adults are more successful at resolving these regrets during bereavement than younger adults.

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