The quality and frequency of mother-toddler conflict: links with attachment and temperament

Deborah Laible1, Tia Panfile, Drika Makariev

  • 1Department of Psychology, Lehigh University, Bethlehem, PA 18015, USA. del205@lehigh.edu

Child Development
|March 28, 2008
PubMed

The goal of this study was to examine the links among attachment, child temperament, and the quality and frequency of mother-toddler conflict. Sixty-four mothers and children took part in a series of laboratory tasks when the child was 30 months of age and an audiorecorded home observation when the child was 36 months of age. All episodes of conflict were identified from the videotapes/audiotapes, transcribed, and coded for conflict strategies, resolution, and themes. Mothers also completed measures of attachment security and child temperament. Concurrent attachment security was related to the quality of mother-toddler conflict (including resolution, justification, and compromise) at both periods but not to the frequency of conflict. In addition, aspects of child temperament (i.e., negative reactivity and activity level/impulsivity) were related to both the quality and the frequency of mother-toddler conflict.

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