M4M chat rooms: individual socialization and sexual autonomy

T C Sanders1

  • 1Department of Sociology, York University, Toronto, Ontario, Canada. tcs@yorku.ca

Summary

Men use men for men (M4M) websites and chat rooms to learn about sex and connect with gay communities. These online spaces foster sexual autonomy, though stigma exists for some users.

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