How do I analyze thee? Let me count the ways: considering empathy in couple relationships using self and partner

Dean M Busby1, Brandt C Gardner

  • 1School of Family Life, Brigham Young University, 2086-C JFSB, Provo, UT 84602, USA. dean_busby@byu.edu

Family Process
|July 9, 2008
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