Hold my hand . . . don't let go: moments of caring from a patient's perspective

Karen M Ergott1

  • 1School of Nursing, University of North Carolina, Greensboro, NC, USA.

The author provides her perspective, as a patient, on the holistic nursing she received during the birth of her second child. The moments of caring and compassion she encountered are described. Four years later, the author reflects on the spiritual and emotional journey she has had as a result of this experience.

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