Listening for avoidance: narrative form and defensiveness in adolescent memories

Kristin L Nelson1, Edward Bein, Julia Huemer

  • 1Department of Psychology, McDaniel College, Westminster, MD 21157-4390, USA. knelson@mcdaniel.edu

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