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Self-regulatory failure and intimate partner violence perpetration
Eli J Finkel1, C Nathan DeWall, Erica B Slotter
1Department of Psychology, Northwestern University, Evanston, IL 60208-2710, USA. finkel@northwestern.edu
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
|August 19, 2009
Summary
Self-regulatory failure predicts intimate partner violence (IPV) perpetration. Enhancing self-control can reduce violent impulses and behaviors in relationships.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Criminology
- Social Sciences
Background:
- Intimate partner violence (IPV) is a significant societal issue.
- Understanding predictors of IPV perpetration is crucial for prevention.
- Self-regulation plays a role in impulse control and behavior.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate the hypothesis that self-regulatory failure predicts intimate partner violence (IPV) perpetration.
- To examine the role of self-control in reducing violent impulses and behaviors.
Main Methods:
- Five studies were conducted, employing correlational and experimental designs.
- Methods included assessing dispositional self-control, measuring violent impulses and behaviors, and manipulating self-regulatory resources.
- Participants responded to partner provocations under varying conditions.
Main Results:
- Individuals experiencing violent impulses were more likely to refrain from violence, indicating self-regulatory control.
- Higher dispositional self-control was associated with lower IPV perpetration.
- Experimental depletion of self-regulatory resources increased violence following provocation.
- Self-regulatory training reduced violent inclinations.
Conclusions:
- Self-regulatory processes are critical in preventing intimate partner violence (IPV) perpetration.
- Interventions aimed at bolstering self-regulation may reduce IPV.
- Self-regulation dynamics should be integrated into predictive models of IPV.
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