Is it better to receive than to give? Empathy in the conflict-distress relationship

Merideth Ferguson1, Dawn Carlson, Suzanne Zivnuska

  • 1Baylor University, Hankamer School of Business, Department of Management, One Bear Place #98006, Waco, TX 76798-8006, USA. merideth_ferguson@baylor.edu

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