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Warming up to a cold-sick spouse.

R L Beck1

  • 1Department of Psychiatry, Baylor College of Medicine, Houston, TX 77030.

American Journal of Psychotherapy
|April 1, 1991
PubMed
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This study explores the cold-sick/love-sick interaction pattern in couples, offering a therapeutic schema. Therapists can engage resistant partners by acknowledging needs and reframing distress for successful couple treatment.

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Area of Science:

  • Psychology
  • Family Therapy
  • Relationship Dynamics

Background:

  • Couples often exhibit a 'cold-sick/love-sick' interaction pattern, where one partner withdraws and the other becomes overly distressed.
  • Therapeutic interventions frequently struggle to engage the less accessible, yet pivotal, partner, typically the husband.

Observation:

  • The wife's needs, expectations, and frustrations are crucial and should not be overlooked.
  • The 'love-sick' spouse's intense emotions, often perceived as rage, can be reframed as a plea for help, making her more approachable.
  • The 'cold-sick' partner, though difficult to engage, can be reached by acknowledging his discomfort and honoring his defenses.

Findings:

  • A schema for intervening with the less accessible partner is presented, emphasizing the importance of understanding both partners' perspectives.

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  • Acknowledging the wife's needs while gently encouraging the husband to lower his defenses facilitates therapist entry into the relationship system.
  • Successful treatment hinges on forming careful, sensitive alliances with each partner.

    • Implications:

    • This approach enhances therapists' ability to engage resistant couples in treatment.
    • Reframing intense emotions can improve communication and reduce conflict in relationships.
    • The findings offer a practical framework for addressing common challenges in couple's therapy, particularly with withdrawn partners.