The rejection-rage contingency in borderline personality disorder

Kathy R Berenson1, Geraldine Downey, Eshkol Rafaeli

  • 1Department of Psychology, Columbia University, 1190 Amsterdam Avenue, MC 5501, New York, NY 10027, USA. berenson@psych.columbia.edu

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