'Good parents' strive to raise 'innocent daughters'.

Saima Hamid1, Eva Johansson, Birgitta Rubenson

  • 1Global Health, Department of Public Health Sciences, Karolinska Institutet, Stockholm, Sweden. saima_hamid@yahoo.com

Summary

Parents in Pakistan view raising "innocent daughters" as key to marriage preparedness. This involves balancing social/sexual innocence with confidence and knowledge for a good marriage.

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