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Identifying and explicating variation among friends with benefits relationships
Paul A Mongeau1, Kendra Knight, Jade Williams
1Hugh Downs School of Human Communication, Arizona State University, Tempe, AZ 85287-1205, USA. paul.mongeau@asu.edu
Journal of Sex Research
|November 4, 2011
Summary
This study identifies seven types of friends with benefits relationships (FWBRs), revealing significant diversity in sexual and non-sexual interactions. Many FWBRs attempt to transition into romantic partnerships.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Sociology
- Relationship Science
Background:
- Friends with benefits relationships (FWBRs) are common yet poorly understood.
- Existing research often overlooks the heterogeneity within FWBRs.
Purpose of the Study:
- To identify and validate a typology of seven distinct types of FWBRs.
- To differentiate these types based on interaction patterns and relationship history.
Main Methods:
- Study 1: Qualitative analysis of heterosexual students' definitions and experiences with FWBRs.
- Study 2: Quantitative differentiation of identified FWBR types based on non-sexual interaction, friendship strength, and romantic history.
Main Results:
- Identification of seven FWBR types: true friends, network opportunism, just sex, and three transition types (successful, failed, unintentional), and transition out.
- Significant variation found in non-sexual interaction, friendship quality, and romantic history across FWBR types.
- Many FWBRs indicate a desire or attempt to transition into a romantic relationship.
Conclusions:
- FWBRs are a diverse category of relationships, not a monolithic entity.
- Understanding the nuances of FWBR types is crucial for future research and interventions.
- Future research should employ diverse methods to capture the complexity of FWBRs.
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