Having and being an other-sex crush during early adolescence

Julie C Bowker1, Sarah V Spencer, Katelyn K Thomas

  • 1Department of Psychology, University at Buffalo, State University of New York, Buffalo, NY 14260, USA. jcbowker@buffalo.edu

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