When getting angry is smart: emotional preferences and emotional intelligence

Brett Q Ford1, Maya Tamir

  • 1Department of Psychology, University of Denver, CO 80208, USA. Brett.Q.Ford@du.edu

Summary

Individuals with higher emotional intelligence prefer useful emotions, even unpleasant ones, for strategic regulation. This suggests that valuing context-appropriate feelings, like anger when confronting others, indicates greater emotional intelligence.

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