When does responsiveness pique sexual interest? Attachment and sexual desire in initial acquaintanceships

Gurit E Birnbaum1, Harry T Reis

  • 1School of Psychology, Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya, P.O. Box 167, Herzliya 46150, Israel. birnbag@gmail.com

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