Agreements about extra-dyadic sex in gay men's relationships: exploring differences in relationship quality by

Warwick Hosking1

  • 1Psychology Discipline Group, College of Arts, Victoria University, Melbourne, Victoria, Australia. warwick.hosking@vu.edu.au

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