The association between controlled interpersonal affect regulation and resource depletion

David Martínez-Íñigo1, Giulia Lara Poerio, Peter Totterdell

  • 1Psychology Department, Rey Juan Carlos University, Madrid, Spain. david.martinez@urjc.es

Summary

Interpersonal Affect Regulation (IAR) depletes self-regulatory resources, especially when worsening others' emotions. Positive social feedback can mitigate this depletion when improving affect, highlighting the role of social reactions in resource conservation.

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