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Kate A Ratliff1, Shigehiro Oishi
1Department of Psychology, University of Florida.
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
|August 7, 2013
Summary
Men experience lower implicit self-esteem when romantic partners succeed, unlike women. This study explores gender differences in self-esteem and social comparison within relationships.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Social Psychology
- Relationship Science
Background:
- Social comparison theory posits individuals evaluate themselves by comparing to others.
- Self-esteem, particularly implicit self-esteem, can be influenced by social comparisons within close relationships.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate how a romantic partner's success or failure impacts an individual's implicit and explicit self-esteem.
- To identify potential gender differences in the self-esteem response to a partner's achievements.
Main Methods:
- Five experiments were conducted involving male and female participants.
- Participants' implicit and explicit self-esteem were measured in response to hypothetical or actual partner success/failure across different domains (social, academic).
Main Results:
- Men consistently showed lower implicit self-esteem following a romantic partner's success compared to their failure.
- Women's implicit self-esteem remained unaffected by their partner's performance.
- These effects were observed across various social and academic contexts and whether success was relative or not.
Conclusions:
- Men's implicit self-esteem is vulnerable to their romantic partner's success, indicating a potential negative social comparison effect.
- Women do not exhibit the same pattern, suggesting gender-specific dynamics in relationship-based self-esteem.
- Findings highlight the importance of gender in understanding social comparison processes within romantic partnerships.
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