Longitudinal effect of defensive denial on relationship instability

Daniel G Lannin1, Karen E Bittner, Frederick O Lorenz

  • 1Department of Psychology, Iowa State University.

Summary

Defensive denial in romantic relationships predicts instability by increasing conflict. For women, this denial pattern may originate from family dynamics experienced in adolescence.

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