What is and what could have been: experiencing regret and relief across childhood

Anna C K Van Duijvenvoorde1, Hilde M Huizenga, Brenda R J Jansen

  • 1a Department of Psychology , University of Amsterdam , Amsterdam , Netherlands.

Cognition & Emotion
|December 20, 2013
PubMed

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