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Developing appreciation for ambivalence: the understanding of concurrent conflicting desires in 4- to 7-year-old
Kristin Rostad1, Penny M Pexman1
1Department of Psychology, University of Calgary.
Insights
Children as young as 5 years old can understand conflicting desires, earlier than previously thought. This developing cognitive skill is linked to theory of mind (ToM) and executive functioning (EF).
Area of Science:
- Developmental Psychology
- Cognitive Science
- Child Psychology
Background:
- Understanding concurrent conflicting desires is crucial for social cognition.
- Previous research suggested a later developmental timeline for this ability.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate the developmental trajectory of comprehending concurrent conflicting desires in children.
- To compare children's understanding with that of adults.
- To explore the relationship between this understanding and other cognitive skills.
Main Methods:
- A cross-sectional study involving 4- to 7-year-old children and undergraduate students.
- Participants completed tasks assessing their comprehension of conflicting desires.
- Statistical analyses were used to examine age differences and correlations.
Main Results:
- 6- and 7-year-olds demonstrated above-chance understanding of conflicting desires.
- Emerging comprehension was observed in some 5-year-olds, while 4-year-olds showed limited ability.
- Understanding of conflicting desires emerged earlier than previously reported.
- Significant positive correlations were found between conflicting desire understanding and theory of mind (ToM) and executive functioning (EF) skills, independent of age.
Conclusions:
- Children develop the capacity to understand concurrent conflicting desires at a younger age than previously established.
- Theory of Mind (ToM) and Executive Functioning (EF) are significantly associated with the development of conflicting desire comprehension.
Abstract:
The current experiment examined the development of children's ability to comprehend concurrent conflicting desires (i.e., both wanting and not wanting something at the same time). Participants were 4- to 7-year-old children and a group of undergraduate students (N = 20 in each age group). Results showed that the 6- and 7-year-old children understood concurrent conflicting desires at levels that were well above chance. There was evidence that even some of the 5-year-olds exhibited an emerging comprehension of conflicting desires. However, the 4-year-old children showed little ability to appreciate conflicting desire states. As such, children showed appreciation for conflicting desires at younger ages than suggested by previous research. In addition, significant relationships were observed between children's concurrent conflicting desire understanding and their theory of mind (ToM) and executive functioning (EF) skills, even after controlling for chronological and verbal age.
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