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Post sex affectionate exchanges promote sexual and relationship satisfaction
Amy Muise1, Elaine Giang, Emily A Impett
1Department of Psychology, University of Toronto Mississauga, 3359 Mississauga Road North, Mississauga, ON, L5L 1C6, Canada, amy.muise@utoronto.ca.
Archives of Sexual Behavior
|April 30, 2014
Summary
Post-sex affection, like cuddling, significantly boosts sexual and relationship satisfaction for both partners. Longer and higher-quality affection after intimacy leads to greater long-term satisfaction in romantic relationships.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Relationship Science
- Social Psychology
Background:
- Romantic partners often view post-coital interaction as crucial for intimacy and bonding.
- Understanding the impact of post-sex affection on relationship quality is essential.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate the role of post-sex affection in enhancing sexual and relationship satisfaction.
- To determine how the duration and quality of post-sex affectionate behaviors influence satisfaction.
Main Methods:
- Two studies were conducted: a cross-sectional survey (N=335) and a daily experience study with couples (N=202) over 3 months.
- Data collected included duration and quality of post-sex affection, sexual satisfaction, and relationship satisfaction.
Main Results:
- Longer post-sex affection duration correlated with higher sexual and relationship satisfaction.
- Daily variations in post-sex affection quality and duration predicted immediate satisfaction.
- Sustained affectionate behaviors predicted higher satisfaction at a 3-month follow-up.
- Gender differences observed: women showed a stronger link between affection duration and relationship satisfaction.
Conclusions:
- The period immediately following sexual intimacy is a critical window for fostering satisfaction in romantic relationships.
- Both the duration and quality of post-sex affection are significant predictors of relationship and sexual well-being.
- Findings highlight the importance of continued intimacy and connection after sex.
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