Irritating and constricting/ elating and elastic-being "ex" as a lesbian

Summary

This article explores complex ex-lover relationships and co-parenting dynamics within a lesbian family. It examines the challenges and rewards of building a shared world while navigating internalized critiques and family tensions.

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