Development of self-esteem and relationship satisfaction in couples: Two longitudinal studies

Ruth Yasemin Erol1, Ulrich Orth2

  • 1Department of Psychology, University of Basel.

Summary

Growing self-esteem in both partners significantly boosts relationship satisfaction over time. This connection holds true regardless of gender, age, or relationship length, highlighting self-esteem as a key factor in marital happiness.

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