Dependence, interdependence, and reciprocity after eighty

This article challenges the critics of social policy perspectives seeking to provide care in the community, taking issue with the generally jaundiced view of care giving and the exploitation of women. Based on quantitative and qualitative data from a study of the over eighties in rural U.K. (N = 125), the article looks at the low incidence of heavy dependency in the elderly population living at home and suggests that the preponderance of women in caring roles results from demographic and cultural factors. The experiences of caring spouses and caring daughters are explored in detail, stressing variation in the caring experience and gains as well as losses. Attention is drawn to the reciprocal and interdependent nature of caring relationships and a more differentiated approach to the study of care is urged.