Motive attribution asymmetry for love vs. hate drives intractable conflict

Adam Waytz1, Liane L Young2, Jeremy Ginges3

  • 1Department of Management and Organizations, Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University, Evanston, IL 60208; a-waytz@kellogg.northwestern.edu.

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