The equilibrium model of relationship maintenance.

Sandra L Murray1, John G Holmes2, Dale W Griffin3

  • 1Department of Psychology.

Summary

Protecting relationship bonds involves accommodating hurtful partners, ensuring mutual dependence, and resisting devaluation. A study of newlyweds found these threat-mitigation strategies improve relationship well-being over time.

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