Overnight Custody Arrangements, Attachment, and Adjustment Among Very Young Children

Samantha L Tornello1, Robert Emery1, Jenna Rowen1

  • 1University of Virginia.

Insights

Many infants and toddlers with separated parents have frequent overnight stays with their nonresident parent. This study found frequent overnights linked to infant attachment insecurity but not later adjustment issues.

Area of Science:

  • Child Development
  • Family Studies
  • Psychology

Background:

  • Parental separation and divorce are common for infants and toddlers.
  • The impact of frequent overnight stays with nonresident parents on child wellbeing is understudied.

Purpose of the Study:

  • To examine the prevalence of frequent overnight stays with nonresident parents for infants and toddlers.
  • To investigate the association between frequent overnight stays and child attachment and adjustment.

Main Methods:

  • Analysis of data from the Fragile Families and Child Wellbeing Study.
  • Longitudinal study of children born to primarily low-income, racial/ethnic minority parents in 20 U.S. cities.
  • Examined overnight stay frequency and assessed attachment insecurity and adjustment problems at ages 3 and 5.

Main Results:

  • 6.9% of infants and 5.3% of toddlers had at least one overnight stay per week with a nonresident parent.
  • Frequent overnights were linked to infant attachment insecurity, but this association was less clear for toddlers.
  • Attachment insecurity predicted later adjustment problems, but frequent overnights were not directly associated with adjustment issues at older ages.

Conclusions:

  • Frequent overnight stays with nonresident parents are common for young children.
  • While associated with infant attachment, frequent overnights do not appear to directly impact later child adjustment.
  • Further research is needed to understand the long-term effects of co-parenting arrangements on child development.

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