Insight into children's prosocial lies: Comment on Warneken and Orlins.

Stephen J Ceci1, Kayla A Burd1, Rebecca K Helm1

  • 1Cornell University, Ithaca, New York, USA.

Summary

Young children tell prosocial lies, or "white lies," to make others feel better. This developmental psychology finding has implications for understanding behavior in forensic settings.

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