Bah humbug: Unexpected Christmas cards and the reciprocity norm

Brian P Meier1

  • 1a Gettysburg College.

Insights

The reciprocity norm, the expectation to return favors, was tested with Christmas cards. Contrary to prior research, few participants reciprocated, suggesting offline gift-giving norms may be weakening.

Area of Science:

  • Social Psychology
  • Behavioral Economics

Background:

  • The reciprocity norm describes the social expectation to return favors.
  • A previous study indicated strong reciprocity for Christmas cards from strangers (20% rate).

Purpose of the Study:

  • To conceptually replicate and extend findings on the reciprocity norm in the context of Christmas cards.
  • To investigate factors influencing reciprocity, such as perceived similarity, threat, and modern communication habits.

Main Methods:

  • Study 1: 755 participants received Christmas cards from hypothetical similar/dissimilar strangers to measure reciprocation.
  • Study 2: 494 participants reported their likelihood of reciprocating, perceived threat/suspicion, and email usage.

Main Results:

  • Study 1 showed a significantly lower reciprocation rate (2%) than previously reported.
  • Study 2 found that higher perceived threat/suspicion and increased email use negatively correlated with the likelihood of reciprocating.

Conclusions:

  • The strong reciprocity norm observed in earlier offline gift-giving studies may be declining.
  • Perceived threat and digital communication habits appear to reduce the likelihood of reciprocating unsolicited offline gifts from strangers.

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