When and Why Parents Prompt Their Children to Apologize: The Roles of Transgression Type and Parenting Style

Craig E Smith1, Jee Young Noh2, Michael T Rizzo2

  • 1University of Michigan, Center for Human Growth and Development, North Ingalls Building, 10 Floor, 300 N. Ingalls Street, Ann Arbor, MI 48109, 617-875-9469.

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